The Ten Commandments by Emmet Fox, Chapter Eight, Polarity
In Chapter 8, "Polarity," Emmet Fox provides one of the most brilliant metaphysical re-interpretations in New Thought literature. He takes the Fifth Commandment—"Honour thy father and thy mother"—and moves it far beyond family dynamics.
To Fox, this commandment is the secret to harmonizing the two sides of your own mind.
1. The Divine Parents Within
Fox explains that in the Bible, "Father" and "Mother" are code words for the two poles of the creative process. Everything in the universe has a dual nature (Polarity), and your mind is no exception.
The "Father" (Conscious Mind): This is the masculine principle. It represents Thought, Will, and Direction. It is the part of you that chooses the seed to plant.
The "Mother" (Subconscious Mind): This is the feminine principle. It represents Feeling, Emotion, and the "Womb" of Nature. It is the part of you that takes the "seed" of a thought and gives it life.
2. What it Means to "Honour" Them
Most people "dishonour" their mental parents by keeping them in conflict.
Dishonouring the Father: This happens when you have no mental discipline—when you let stray, negative thoughts run wild without using your "Will" to direct them.
Dishonouring the Mother: This happens when you ignore your feelings or try to "think" your way to a goal while your heart is full of fear or resentment.
To "Honour" them means to bring them into a "Holy Marriage." You must provide a clear, positive idea (Father) and wrap it in a deep, sincere feeling of its truth (Mother).
3. The Law of Feeling
Fox emphasizes that the "Mother" (Subconscious/Feeling) is the actual power that produces the manifestation.
"You do not manifest what you think; you manifest what you feel to be true."
A cold, intellectual thought has no "Fatherhood" power because it hasn't been "conceived" by the Mother (Feeling). This is why "positive thinking" often fails—if the conscious mind says "I am rich" but the subconscious feeling says "I am terrified of the bills," the Mother (the feeling) wins every time.
4. "That Thy Days May Be Long"
The second half of the commandment—"that thy days may be long upon the land"—is usually seen as a promise of physical longevity. Fox interprets "long days" as stability and endurance.
If you manifest something through sheer willpower (Father only) without a change in feeling, the result will be short-lived.
When you "Honour" both—aligning your thoughts and your feelings—your success is built on a solid foundation. It "lasts long" because it is a complete creation.
5. Summary: The Creative Marriage
Practical Takeaway: The "Alignment" Check
Fox suggests that whenever you are working on a problem, you should check your "Polarity":
Check the Father: Is your thought clear? Do you know exactly what Spiritual Truth you are claiming?
Check the Mother: How do you feel? If you feel tense or worried, you are "dishonouring the mother."
The Fix: Use the "Father" (Will) to quiet the "Mother" (Emotion) until she feels safe and peaceful. Only when they are in agreement is the "child" (the manifestation) born.